Right, this has to be said now because I am sick to the back teeth of the playground politics and immaturity that has been thrown around recently, particularly from one person. Now I am reaching out to that person and saying to them that enough is enough. We don't have to like each other, but that doesn't mean that we have to relentlessly sling mud at each other over the internet. This blog isn't called "What my Ex did next". And it isn't about immaturity and mudslinging.
I started this blog back then to document the daily events of my life, my struggles with long term conditions and how I overcome each obstacle that tries to stand in my way. This includes the highs and the lows and from a lot of outsider's perspectives as well as my own, that did include incidents with this person when we were cohabiting. I never once proclaim myself as innocent and I know that when pushed I can be a nasty piece of work, but at the end of the day, I chose to move on with my life once that relationship ended. I have moved on and taken a lot of the mudslinging with grace and honesty and I will continue to do so if the need arises.
I hold my head up high because I have left the past where it belongs. Dwelling on the past does no one any good and becoming bitter and twisted will make it impossible for your own goals to be accomplished. So I reach out to that person for a ceasefire on the mudslinging, to leave each other alone and stop this immaturity and move on with our own lives.
4 years ago