Life with Becky has been brilliant. We have both been here for 2 weeks now and its been absolutely awesome. I mean we had some minor teething problems to start with, with Becky not living away from home before and me well, being a solitary creature at the best of times, its been something of a learning curve for both of us. For me, I have had to learn that allowing people to help me is not a sign of weakness, more a sign that I am accepting that I so have some limitations and sometimes I do need help with things.
I also noticed that one person in particular keeps talking on their blog about something that happened in the past. Something very personal and an event where I was hurt more than anyone else would ever be able to comprehend, unless of course you have experienced these things. They are not anyone else's affair and they are not to be used frivolously or discussed by anyone other than myself. I do not want my past printed up on the internet in such a way and if this does continue I will be seeking legal council as it is a clear violation of my rights as a human being to have privacy. Furthermore as only myself and the people who did those things to me are the only people who know what happened, and I do not wish to discuss it here as it is frankly not something I want people seeing on the internet. Its not clever, its not funny and it is none of anyone else's business.
Now that I have cleared that matter up, I can now focus on the positives recently. Well recently I changed my look, dropped a bit more weight and have been spending time with my 5 chunky lads. Oh and I have someone very special who has come in to my life, I'll be seeing Jace soon and I can't wait. I think it may be very safe to say that this Wendy is smitten and happy about it. I can't wait until I have bright blue hair and a huge smile on my face, when the rash (caused by a viral infection and mild allergy to something) calms down, I will take more pictures, but for now, I will leave you with a picture of me and Becky when we were happily walking around a few days ago.
2 years ago